12 yr old boys.....advice please.

my eyes ouch

Ok, he has a playstation, which he loses for his cheek and attitude, he has 2 bikes, 1 mountain bike 1 bmx well over £500 worth which he loses too, when he is grounded he just won't come home from school, or he sneaks out of windows or waits till a door is opened for the dog or cat to come in or out.
They both get £5 pocket money which is paid for a couple of allocated jobs, and the chance to earn extra for doing extra jobs, he point blank refuses to help out with anything, will kick off if i don't instantly put money in his hand on fridays.
Sturge has tried allsorts with him, helping with the cars, taken him karting for good behaviour, and took him on mountain bike trails etc.

I told him tonight to go to his room for the language earlier, and i was told to "shut it".....he has since been back down to batter his sister, i chased him back up to be called " a selfish cow"!!!!

make him look at that pic for a few hours, he'll never be rude again lol

i say send Baxter round

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Originally Posted by Miss Stig

Ok, he has a playstation, which he loses for his cheek and attitude, he has 2 bikes, 1 mountain bike 1 bmx well over £500 worth which he loses too, when he is grounded he just won't come home from school, or he sneaks out of windows or waits till a door is opened for the dog or cat to come in or out.
They both get £5 pocket money which is paid for a couple of allocated jobs, and the chance to earn extra for doing extra jobs, he point blank refuses to help out with anything, will kick off if i don't instantly put money in his hand on fridays.
Sturge has tried allsorts with him, helping with the cars, taken him karting for good behaviour, and took him on mountain bike trails etc.

I told him tonight to go to his room for the language earlier, and i was told to "shut it".....he has since been back down to batter his sister, i chased him back up to be called " a selfish cow"!!!!

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Ive seen you say you have a disabled daughter,do you think he may be jealous of the attention she needs/has???
And this is all attention seeking maybe???

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Originally Posted by Miss Stig

Ok, he has a playstation, which he loses for his cheek and attitude, he has 2 bikes, 1 mountain bike 1 bmx well over £500 worth which he loses too, when he is grounded he just won't come home from school, or he sneaks out of windows or waits till a door is opened for the dog or cat to come in or out.
They both get £5 pocket money which is paid for a couple of allocated jobs, and the chance to earn extra for doing extra jobs, he point blank refuses to help out with anything, will kick off if i don't instantly put money in his hand on fridays.
Sturge has tried allsorts with him, helping with the cars, taken him karting for good behaviour, and took him on mountain bike trails etc.

I told him tonight to go to his room for the language earlier, and i was told to "shut it".....he has since been back down to batter his sister, i chased him back up to be called " a selfish cow"!!!!

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if i did that, the bmx went for sale, the playstation etc.

1. log off png
2. get cable ties
3. tie him up till hes on the verge of mental insanity/death
4. sit back and relax as he once again appreciates you and life




lol

re the grounding... simply make arrangements for him to be collected from school by you.. that will embarass him greatly....

there is the possibility that he is getting bullied himself, and is coming home & taking it out of you..

what outside activities does he do?? if none, maybe he needs to find some..

get him to join the young farmers...............lol lol

another thing maybe his mates? are they a bunch of scrotes? or maybe he needs storys to talk about and make him look big, say his mate said he did something at home the night before, he thinks he may need to better it?

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Originally Posted by Ernie

i say send Baxter round

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