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Again, thanks for all these messages folks. They really do help.
Me and the new Mrs split a little while ago. I kinda guess Rach was still on my mind alot, and whenever the slightest arguement arose, i took off. Simply cannot deal with stress anymore. Ive walked out of two jobs and now a relationship in an attempt to get away from stress. Im coping ok with it for now . .
Think you need some time to chill dude, you've had a lot of weight to carry on your shoulders. Going from one relationship into another when things are considered 'normal' makes things difficult but you've gone into another relationship after one with some rather extenuating circumstances, so it's bound to take a toll on you.
Hi
still new to the site and this is the first time i have read this tread..
Stan you truely are a very brave and decent young man and you should be proud of yourself.
I really do hope that Rach continues to improve...i also hope that you Stan can still move on with your life and find some peace you truly couldnt do anymore than you already have....and the fact that you still care about Rach says alot about you....give yourself a huge pat on the back.
good luck with the court case.......
keep your chin up
take care
Stan, only just found this thread mate, ive read every word, and im soo sorry to hear about this and everything that you went through
really shows you how fragile life is and that it should be treasured in everyway
and some people have 'major' money worries that stress them??
you deserve a certificate for what you have done/ been throught.
dont you ever let anyone tell you any different.
Chin up mate
Rhydian
this really puts life into perspective for me pal chin up! x
man ive read i couple if bits on different pages and ill feel for you man. you are a seriously strong man and hold in there feller, its funking awesome to hear that she is up :). i had an incident this year when my brothers best mate borrowed my brothers car, hit black ice at about 20mph got hit side on by an oncoming car and died instantly. this happened in feb this year and the passenger started walking off of his crutches properly today.
best wishes to her and you mate:thumb:
Ross
Struggling bad of late. Real bad.
Signed off work and back on tablets.
Bumped into Rachs brother last night in a pub who was completely ****ted and didnt seem happy at all with me. I took bad to this is walked home then proceeded to cry my eyes out.
Got the court case coming up on the 1st Feb and i am not looking forward to it at all. I want out.
Are you still in contact with Rach's brother or is this the first time you have seen him for a while? Him being drunk doesn't give you a true reflection of how he's feeling. The court case is coming up for him too so don't feel too down on him and yourself. I'm guessing last night was a one off so don't think this is the way it's always going to be.
It will be hard going through the court case, but there will be a time when it is over and done with, this time is getting closer every day.
It's sh1tty time of year anyway and you need to make sure this time off you have is used positively. Having been signed off work before for the reasons I'm guessing you've been signed off, I say do something active which raises the heartbeat, rest regularly, eat properly. Then you can fit other things into the gaps.
Very true, so don't let that bother you as you haven't done anything wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by dannyb
i wasnt aware of this thread until half hour ago...me and the missus have sat and read it word for word(by page 3 she had tears)this has touched me,your strength of character is just astonishing! I really am gobsmacked as to how 1 person can cope with so much stress!
so so sorry to hear about it all mate.
we would like to wish rach + you all the very best
Roy & Hannah