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Small Update.
Rach is now up in Edinburgh where she is receiving lots of physio etc.
Being honest i have kinda fell outta the loop and not 100% sure of whats happening. Kinda struggling what with it being Xmas etc, as i keep thinking that this time last year i was in the worst place i have ever been in my life.
Going and seeing Rach doesnt help me in the slightest so ive backed off for a bit till i can bare it.
I have the court case looming on the horizon which i could really do without.
Just realised this post is all about me. I wish it was different.
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Dude i would try not to beat your self up about thinking more about your self, As you say you've been through it now, your almost on the other side from the sounds of things, and your moving on with your own life, it's not you being selfish or nasty, it's just unfortunate that it all had to be this way in the first place, you couldn't stay with her the way things are, im sure her family understand,and im sure most other guys would of had less contact in a shorter time scale then you kept it going etc..
Just my thoughts on things, i know i cant really put my self in your shoes but i can say how i see it.
Scott
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good luck chap, just keep plodding along and you will come to terms with it one day! hope you can get it sorted chap!
:thumb: keep smiling!
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Im gonna pop round and see her folks soon. Cant explain how bad i feel about it all. So much shame. Feel so guilty.
Dreading the court case too.
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like scott said dont beat your self up.
it was a VERY tough call you had to make and IMO you have done the best you can.
keep going strong.
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I don’t read books but I have just read this start to finish. Stan mate, good on you for everything that you have done. Takes a lot but im sure you have learnt a lot and now have a new out look on life.
Good luck with your future and I hope Rachel makes progress.
Maximum respect.
Richard
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Am sorry im on this forum nearly everyday and ive never came across this thread Stan
My thoughts are with both Rachael, yourself and her friends and family
Luck after yourself. Rachael will want you to remember the good times and enjoy your life, youve got a friend forever however big or small the contact is.
Joe
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I know I dont know you and im just echoing what everyone else has been saying on here but you really are a great sounding guy. and you shouldnt feel guilty or ashamed of anything that you have done. you could of walked away as soon as you had heard how bad her injuries were and the possible long-term effects but you didnt. You stayed by her side for months and all that you did probably helped her recovery to what she is now a lot faster than she would of done had you not been there
you probably know more than anyone else that she would want you to be happy in the long run and you should be glad that you got yourself through the dark days and are still around to visit her.
I wish you all the best for the future with your new girlfriend and also that you are happy with the friend that you now have in rach.
x
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i just read the whole thread...im actually stuggling with what to put. you have my utmost respect :)
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I too have just thread this thread, i cant put in words how sorry i am for you and Rach and what you've been thru. I can only say i'm sorry to read/hear everything you've both been thru.
I do hope she carries on getting better and so do you.
Got to say your currage(sp) and ability to cope with all of this is amazing.
I tip my hat to you for that.
So sorry for it all. My best to you both.
