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i think its amazing how you have stuck by her so long with out knowing what the turn out is going to be.
i do believe you are the only one that can decide what you think is the best thing to do you cant take what others say when its your life and you have to live with what is going on in it
i think every one should respect what you have been through and respect your decision.
but i feel for you mate and i hope for the best for both of you.
only read a few parts, but very sory to hear whats happened.
agree with what you've said to her, and id imagine she would understand why maybe?
i had a treacheostomy(spl) xmas day 8mnth old, spent 5months in hospital, dont remember it, but then spent weeks in intensive care wen i was 6 with throat again after watching self pass out in mirror! so i can relate to what you put in first post.
but fingers crossed things will get better or atleast the best they can for you all.:thumb:
hang in there mate,
Well, its been nearly seven months since Rachaels accident and to be honest, things havent really turned out for the best.
Basically, although she is now out of her coma, she is still VERY unresponsive. Still drip fed, still very static and cant move, talk etc etc. Basically she seems to be very severely brain damaged.
Ive had to make the decision to end our relationship, but im still there for her as a friend. A very very hard choice to make, believe me.
Also, I recieved a citation through from the procurator fiscal, where i will have to appear in court as a witness. (although i wasnt actually there, i had spent the previous night and preceeding morning/afternoon with her), which im not looking forward to. The case is against the van driver.
Its her 22nd birthday on Friday, and its going to be a very hard day indeed.
Just to fill you all in.
Just read this tread stan i am very sorry to hear what has happened to you keep your head up mate where all routing for you im sure.
Damen.:)
Also just read some of this thread, Respectable thing for you to do there mate, more than most people would do, Good things do happen so keep in there.
keep your chin up mate where all thinkin of you both
your one strong geezer
Stan you made the right decision. You cant live your life like that for ever. Your just as much in a coma as she is unfortunately. And to break away from that you have had to fight with yourself to do it, i admire your strenght dude. I really hope she makes some progress,i really do.
Stan you're a Saint. No one could even contemplate blaming you for your choice, fair play to you.