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As you said she doesnt recognise anyone or anything . . . you could have just not went to see her or do all the things you have sacrifised for her and she wouldn't have known,but you have been there evreyday and all the things your doing for her and she doesnt even know.What i'm getting at is that you are f**king amazing for being so strong,and for just loving her so much that you have changed your life for her!
I wish there was more like you around man.
yo stan any news on rach keep yr end up fella
Hang in there fella. take the small positves from it, she has her eyes open. She will be amazed when she wakes up properly and you tell her about all the love and support you have from us on here.
Stay strong but take sometime for yourself...
Thinking of you both
Hello folks.
Sorry for the lack of updates, as there hasnt really been any developements.
Rach is still doing ok, but no real progress. Been a bit ill but thats cleared and shes back on her feed as normal.
I suppose the only real news/info/whatever, as that i am taking things from a friends point of view. I have known her as a friend since 1st year at school, and i feel that that is the way things are going to have to be, as it is looking more and more likely that she will be quite severely brain damaged.
Its was a VERY hard decision to make, and one that still niggles away at me constantly, as usually when 'splitting up' with someone, you can both sit and talk about it, and work out a way to make it as painless as possible or whatever, but that is simply not possible. I basically felt i had to take my own life into consideration. I have told Rachael all this, as i feel that had to be the only way. I still go and see her, and still phone up every day to see how she is, but i am continuing my relationship with her as a very close friend.
Any one who doesnt understand/appreciate how hard it was/still is for me to make that choice can take a run and jump personally.
Thats the only real info i have im afraid.
As long as your there for her buddy, I'm sure she appreciates it. Must be a complete nightmare, all my best to you both.
mate, its understandable, still keeps us informed yeah? and who knows....
Rep added mate. Well done.
any news mate??
Just read through mate, very sorry to hear this and also very inspired and touched. You are a modern day hero, what you have done to stay by her and be there, your a legend! I dont know how i would cope with a sitiuation like this, being the around the same age as you i can only imagine the effect it has had on your life and i feel for you both.
Rep from me mate you deserve it, keep your chin up :thumb:
Tis a shame for everyone involved. I don't think anybody can fault you for making a very tough decision. Whatever happens to her you will always have your memories and even though the damage sounds bad i'm sure she has all her memories still with her too.
Best of luck to you and her, you never know what medicine can acheive given enough time, she may never be the same but life is measured in lots of different ways.