its almost like if she is brain damaged that your racheal has been lost and you are now caring for a new racheal.
must be mega hard looking from your perspective
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its almost like if she is brain damaged that your racheal has been lost and you are now caring for a new racheal.
must be mega hard looking from your perspective
I do picture it from your perspective. I know I'd stick with my other half if it happened to her. What I said above was the most polite way of saying "If you're not going to stick with her no matter what, why don't you just quit now?", that I could think of. After all, what if she reads this?
Dont get me wrong, i wouldnt just write her off and move on. I couldnt do that. Id still be there as a very good mate and do anything i can to help. Ive known her for years, regardless of our 'relationship' together.Quote:
Originally Posted by bmw156
tbh dude i think you have done extreamly well to come this far, and still be seeing her so regularly as you are. im sure she is very happy that you are there. and im sure she would understand if you were the person who had had the accident. and im sure you will be there for her rain nor shine what ever happens.
keep at it
I dunno, i suppose im just venting. Preparing myself for the worst.Quote:
Originally Posted by Welsh Dan
My feelings for her have not dimmed at all.
At the end of the day, we had only been going out two weeks (and dont get me wrong, i wish more than anything in the world that i could go back to that, honestly) but ive known her longer as a mate.
Tbh bud i can understand youreslf preparing for the worst which yes i suppose is something you should do but in all honesty i would try not to be thinking like that as if youre loosing hope she will recover/wake up she will pick up on your fear and tension and might even start feeling the same and start giving up.
Come on bud i imagine youve been through some horrible months recently and cant even begin to imagine how i would be feeling in your situation but i know i wouldnt cope with it as well as you have been doing so youre definately a better man than i am bud and i sincerely mean that aswell!
Please hang in there man she will come back to you but i imagine she cant/wont feel as she wants to if youre not there staying strong for her.
Still thinking of you both man, you can do it after coming through so much and still being here, stay positive dude:thumb:
I do see where you're coming from, but unfortunately my mind tends to work in a very black and white manner.
Keep your chin up :).
Cheers folks.
Ive booked a week off work from the 1st Feb so i can do NOTHING and rest.
The past 19 weeks have been pretty full on and i can feel myself getting un down and ill.
Thats all it will be tbh mate youve spent sooo long just "functioning" i.e. getting up, going to work, going to see rach, going to bed, getting up......
You need a break, im not saying dont bother with her for a week but try and spend a bit of time with your mates just pissing about and having a laugh, see if any of your close mates can get a day or three off at the same time aswell and just relax and enjoy and you should feel a world better bud!
I might do some work on the car actually. Itl be nice not to have any plans.Quote:
Originally Posted by Spudly
Getting up in the mornings is getting harder by the day. Work colleagues have been commenting lately that i look like ****e too.