Any ideas for a Valentines present for Rach if she is still in a coma?
'Bizarre predicament of the week'
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Any ideas for a Valentines present for Rach if she is still in a coma?
'Bizarre predicament of the week'
her favourite perfume? the smell will maybe trigger something? or a cd of her favourie music?
Thats a brilliant idea is that.:thumb:Quote:
Originally Posted by slothsport1
Well, I already mentioned the lantern. Not exactly a present for her but you can shower her with gifts when she wakes up properly.
christ fella thats a hard one get her a card with an iou inside for anything she could want agree with others something she can smell touch smell or hear the family and me check your posts every day keep your chin up fella
+rep for sloth, the perfume is probs the best idea, a spray once everytime you see her. just a ncie bunch of flowers, roses maybe. even tho she cant see them its the thought that can count.
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Originally Posted by stan_the_man2k4
I recently got to speak to a friend who had been through surgery (and the anaestesia (sp?) that goes with it. After surgery was completed, she was sent to recovery as with all regular patients. She then wouldn't wake up, as if she slipped into a coma. Scary. One of the nurses had seen this happen before, and talked her through in a very interesting way.
Seeing as she wouldn't/couldn't respond. the nurse asked her to breathe out once for "no" and twice for "yes" when asked a question, that kind of thing. I hope you understand what I'm on about.
It just might work for you and your loved one.
Best,
Niek
mate as a gift is there ne thing that you no she wanted b4 the accident? cd maybe or shoes or sumint? if so try and get that cos then you no she gonna wake up and see you there with the last thing she can remember wanting! hope she does get better mate and good to see you standing by her! takes a proper man to do that and be there for her when she wakes up! hope all goes well! u should be proud of urself!!!!!!!!
I say make a collage of all her favourite things - photos of family/friends/pets etc, clipings about her favourite books/films/artists etc, cut off from her favourite clothing, that sort of thing. Not only is it very thoughtfull (girls love thoughtfull gifts ;) ) but you will have fun doing it and will make you feel good at this awfull time :thumb:
Thanks for all the suggestions folks.
I think il just keep it simple with a card and il treat her if/when she wakes.
Its recently kind of dawned on me that im not going to get my Rachael back as i know her. Of course i'l be there for her, but in a relationship sense, i think it wont be possible. I think that she will not be the Rachael i fell in love with.
Its been a hard few days.:(