My Mrs in a coma after car crash

all the best to you both mate. hang in there.

I really do think someone up there is having a hell of a laugh at mine and my familys expense.

My brothers girlfriend was date raped on friday night. This is not long after she has got over having meningitis.

WHat the **** is going on? Seriously.

Thats awful is your brothers girfriend ok, to recover from something as serious as meningitis and then something so terrible to happen is really sad,there are some sicko's out there. Its hard iv had lots of ups and down in my life too, some worse than others specially when it happens all at once but yourself and your family try and stick together and be strong.

Also had a dream about Rach last night.

I dreamed that she woke up in her hospital room, got up and was walking around as if normal. I was telling her to calm down as she had only just woken up and her broken legs had only just healed and that she should take it easy, she said she had bandages etc etc and was fine. She looked really happy and was in great fettle. I was ****ing overjoyed, but when i opened my eyes and woke up, i realised it was a dream. I was ****in gutted.

I've been following this thread but i really didnt no what to say, but i wish you and your girlfriend all the best and i hope you both recover :thumb:

Im sure Rachel will come back to you :)

any updates chap? how you coping? hope you are well!

I hope Rachel is making more improvements and that you are all staying strong at this hard time.

Hey.

No real updates. Shes doing ok. Seems very steady and making gradual progress. Still going to see her every 2nd night and still phoning every day.

They have changed her tracheostomy (breathing apparatus in her neck) for a smaller one, in the hope to eventually have it removed.

Im ok yeah. Finally got myself a car again so that will help at hell of a lot. I live 13 miles out of town so getting the bus has been very frustrating and expensive (£200 per month). So thats been a real boost for me, as i LOVE driving.

When i was up on thursday, as i was leaving i gave her a kiss on the forehead and she opened her eyes. Really got to me.

Cheers again folks.

Hey,

Thats a good sign that they have changed the tube to a smaller one this will hopefully make it easier for Rachel to breathe, Its also great to know she opened her eyes when you kissed her forehead that shows that Rachel is slowly coming round.

Nice to hear you got a new car too.