My Mrs in a coma after car crash

Sorry to hear that matey, I have been reading this thread for a while and it looks like you are still hanging on in there. Have to give you big respect for that. No one can really comprehend whats going on in your mind or how tough it is although many of us have probably thought about it.

It's good to hear that she is more responsive. I think this is partly your efforts seeing as your routine has been visiting her frequently and talking to her. Keep up the conversation with her fella the more stimulation she gets from a familiar voice the better.

Congrats on your new job too. I wish you all the best mate.

got linked to this thread off byebyegti.com

used to post on here alot when i had my nova but havent seen anything on here for months worth posting for.

i read this though and it was truly upsetting, i think life is harsh at times and that i have it bad. nothing even close to this though.

in all honesty though mate going through what you have would of torn me in half, the fact you can post about it on the internet and the fact you've stuck by her all this time and stayed mentally and phyisically strong i have alot of respect for you and i've never met you in my life. the world is running short of GENUINE faithful people.

stay strong fella, she'll be back smiling soon,

wow :confused:

Jesus i didnt realise this was getting posted on other sites so much!!:tard:

You have no idea how much this is helping me. My counsellor says that she is no longer needed by me as the way im dealing with things is a "work of art" as she said. SHe says that using site such as this one is a great way to help, as its basically a 24/7 counsellor at the touch of a button.

Ive knocked the beattablockers on the head too as i want to try without them. Rach being back in Dumfries is helping a hell of a lot too.

Just back from the hospital, and she seemed a bit more lively. She reached across and pulled the heart rate monitor off her thumb, as if completely normal. She lifted her head off the pillow a couple times too and tried to turn and look at me.

The nurse said that if she asks Rach to open her hand, sometimes she will do it. It may take a few seconds or she may not always do it, but it shows there is a little bit going on in there! She was moving her left leg a bit too tonight which is new. Also if i let her hand go, she will fish around for something to grab onto until she finds a teddy or a hand.

Im quietly confident that she wont be long now.......

Once again, thank you all folks. Youre helping me, which is helping Rach.

Mate thats brilliant,Your so strong and brave.What you do/have done is incredible.Keep your chin up.

I dont no what to say 2be honest mate!!
You have 2be an incredibly strong person 2go threw something like what your going threw!! I got shivers down my back when i read what you first wrote . . . . . . you are a very unique person,be strong!

Got my fingers and toes crossed that she gives you an early crhistmas present of waking up :)

Mate, you and your missus will be legends as soon as she wakes up. As you say, its only a matter of time before she wakes. You've gotten a lot of responces on Total Opel as well, so if you fancy having a gander, heres the link:
http://totalopel.com/forum/showthread.php?t=803

You may need to register to view it but feel more than welcome to do so mate. Same applies to anyone else.

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Originally Posted by stan_the_man2k4

Jesus i didnt realise this was getting posted on other sites so much!!:tard:

You have no idea how much this is helping me. My counsellor says that she is no longer needed by me as the way im dealing with things is a "work of art" as she said. SHe says that using site such as this one is a great way to help, as its basically a 24/7 counsellor at the touch of a button.

Ive knocked the beattablockers on the head too as i want to try without them. Rach being back in Dumfries is helping a hell of a lot too.

Just back from the hospital, and she seemed a bit more lively. She reached across and pulled the heart rate monitor off her thumb, as if completely normal. She lifted her head off the pillow a couple times too and tried to turn and look at me.

The nurse said that if she asks Rach to open her hand, sometimes she will do it. It may take a few seconds or she may not always do it, but it shows there is a little bit going on in there! She was moving her left leg a bit too tonight which is new. Also if i let her hand go, she will fish around for something to grab onto until she finds a teddy or a hand.

Im quietly confident that she wont be long now.......

Once again, thank you all folks. Youre helping me, which is helping Rach.

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sounds like it might be befor xmas, which i spect would be the best present ever

keep strong dude:thumb:

omg stan, just read this thread and it has brought me to tears, its such a shame things like this happen as you never expect it to happen to you.

reading through her progress though its good news, im no doctor but that is definatly a big step forward into her waking up!
my heart and soul go out to all of you as i cant even imagine the heartbreak and pain your going through.
fingers crossed for you buddy, good things come to good people and you deserve it all.
stay strong and stay brave:thumb: