View Full Version : should i or shouldn'y i?
i have been with the gf now 7 years in feb 14th. i know we are going to buy a house next year. and we both think, well it's just a ring. my mum thinks its what she wants. i just.......dont know!
i love her, but you know. should i just do it?
most women love marrage but she may not be telling you that just in case it scares you. do what you want to do.
most girls say they dont want it, because they feel thats wot the avg man thinks. It is a peice of paper n ring at end of day, but it also symbolizes ure love for each other. if you love her go for it, 7yrs is a hell of a long time and u shud know each other inside out (so to speak lol) and i think its a good idea if its wot u both want.
Good Luck! make it special if u do!
once they've got that ring on there finger their legs shut......
or maybe thats just r lass
:lol: :lol:
mark_GSi
01-02-04, 08:07 PM
if you feel thats its right then do it m8 :D :D
like jordi said, make it special 8)
i was gonna do it to my g/f when we went to Euro disney, was gona propose when we were in the big castle, sleeping buetys (spelling) i think it is
never did it cose i asked her a few months before if she would say yes, she said she would but not yet (couple of years time)
i say go for it m8 :lol:
mark_GSi
01-02-04, 08:07 PM
LMAO @ EPO :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
?Marty?
01-02-04, 10:02 PM
7 years!? you should have already done it.
it's only getting engaged, it might take another 7 years before actually having the wedding anyway.
it is heavy duty
iv got a good decider for you, my car goes in for its MOT on the 14th if it passes its a yes if it fail then mybe you should think again. :P
nah but seriosly it is a magor choice. but im shour youl do what you feel is right and i wish you the best of luck.
wigz
Do it sean, u might aswell mate. Like marty said it dont mean you have to marry any time soon.
?Marty?
01-02-04, 10:33 PM
mariage means nothing. there's allways divorce.
just make sure to get a prenup. :wink:
Well that was a great load of advice from the male population lol, not the best place to ask - a website mostly populated by blokes who loves cars, blokes who supposedly run from commitment! lol
I'd say if it feels right, then do it. But if you both think "its just a ring", you've obviously talked about it before. What were her thoughts then? positive...negative....Liking it? etc. Just think about it all and do as you think is right :!:
Good Luck!
i have asked her before. not with a ring. but i said it meaningly before. she laughed. i have asked in passing before and she has yes.
i just dont want to come to crunch time and land flat on my face!
yeah do it, i think u should.
Dare-devil
02-02-04, 08:07 AM
If you love her - yes
Yep your right... :wink:
if you love her, go for it.
and......
once they've got that ring on there finger their legs shut......
or maybe thats just r lass
:lol: :lol:
oh god, i hope for your sake she doesn't read this!!
if she does - it was nice knowing you!
if you love her, go for it.
and......
once they've got that ring on there finger their legs shut......
or maybe thats just r lass
:lol: :lol:
oh god, i hope for your sake she doesn't read this!!
if she does - it was nice knowing you!
nah she wont she knows am only messing ne way
ive got a good idea tho
why not release ur missus in2 the wild and if she comes back then u know shes the one 4 u
a bit like a homin pigeon :lol:
Go for it m8! if you get engaged, the ring can easily come off again!
Marriage is a different ball game!
Good luck!
mbr1.2i
02-02-04, 11:39 PM
yeh go for it mate, then again u get less for armd robery :D lol j/k
i would mate :)
wisewood
03-02-04, 02:09 PM
mate - go for it.
if you do it right, and get the ring and everything you've got nothing to worry about.
7 years is long enough to know she isnt going to run away and leave you for being over commited to it all - do it.
:D
well i have just sold my kidney on the black market, tried the liver but due to excessive drinking they asked me to pay them to take it.
so the ring is bought. :o
the date in mind is set :o :o
and now i'm thinking........
what the hell am i doing!!!!!!!!!
i mean, i could have bought some coilovers or some twin 40's!
but as i am getting a life times supply of a salmon canyon i cant complain!
watch this space :|
well youve already taken the plunge (face it buying the ring is almost asking lol)
but I'd have said that if after 7 years you still see the spark that made it happen for you two, then your onto a winner and that you should slip that ring on.
hey you get a good (albeit expensive but feck it) day out and loads of pressies lol
and a STAG nite ;)
oh and a wife, almost forgot the important bit lol
sean let me know how it goes.
sean let me know how it goes.
Why, you thinking of asking her if she says no?
:lol: :lol:
Dare-devil
11-02-04, 07:45 AM
:lol: :lol:
Lol, no mark, if she says no neil wants sean lol
video it so if she says no at least you entertained us!
have u asked her yet sean?
the date is?????????
we mate on valenties day 7 years ago (scary as it is, we could have met years earlier)
and we started going out on the 21st of march.
i have decided to give her a anneverasry card explaining that 7 is a lucky number etc and then drop one onto my knee and do it. i ave choosen a really nise restaraunt already.
table is booked.
and my pants are soiled!
am i the first to say this to you lot?
Careful when you drop down u old git u might put out your hip and never make it back up :lol: :lol: Only joking sean, lets hope she dont come on here cos it will ruin her suprise
umm i do belive you are the first person to discuss a proposal like that with us.
oh and ian, your a cruel git lol but it would be entertaining
it is very personal, it would be like me speaking about the rash i have down below :oops:
ive got thrush it itches like hell :lol:
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