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rachaelrebekah
10-12-03, 11:17 AM
just out of curiosity what everyones views on affairs?? who dso you think is to blame?? anyone ahd an affair thats turned into something more??
If your bird aint putting out i dont see any problem with it :lol: Only kidding i think its bad and the person who is cheating is to blame
wisewood
10-12-03, 11:26 AM
I have been both the cheater and the cheated in my time and to be honest i wouldnt do it again.
I was cheated on first, in fact she went behind my back with someone who was supposedly a mate of mine. A few years later i cheated on my girlfriend of 18 months or so with someone who was just supposed to be a bit of fun but that started to grow into something more - almost to the point where i was planning on moving in with her but decided i couldnt do it and ended it > told my girlfriend all about it and after some discussion we sorted things out and lasted a whole 12 months before we broke up, for totally unrelated reasons.
I have also seen someone who i knew was in a long term relationship with someone else, at a time when i was single. In this situation i did feel guilty - especially after i met the guy and found he was actually alright. But didnt really put me off very much.
I know lots of people who have cheated or had affairs - and most of those people have been women - not being sexist - its a fact that most people i know who have cheated have been women - my mother being one, my ex's mother being another and several ladies closer to my own age.
If you have any love / feeling for your partner, dont do it - because everyone gets hurt in the end. Especially if there are kids involved.
?Marty?
10-12-03, 04:42 PM
I practice my pimp slap for situations like that. Dont be a ho.
I have also seen someone who i knew was in a long term relationship with someone else, at a time when i was single. In this situation i did feel guilty - especially after i met the guy and found he was actually alright. But didnt really put me off very much.
If 2 ppl want each other so much and to be with each, then let it be i say, but if its just some 1 nite stand behind your partners back i think thats wrong. Partners should have respect for each other and tell em truth
Never have done, never will!
Iv been cheated on! feels bad! wouldnt want ne1 else 2 feel what i felt!
dan_mk1
17-12-03, 04:16 PM
I practice my pimp slap for situations like that. Dont be a ho.
i find for the proper 'pimp' slap, sprinkle a little talcum powder on your hand first! :lol:
(has anyone seen 'how high'???)
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