View Full Version : who has kids?
dave.gsi
27-03-09, 04:58 PM
and what age did you have them?
i'm 26 and i'm not even thinking about having one of the little poo machines yet! three of my mates have recently became mums/dads and they're all younger than me, i couldn't think of anything worse lol
kelbelle
27-03-09, 04:59 PM
Martin and I dont have any yet because we're both only 21, live at home with our parents and at uni full time so defo not right time. But after 3 years together and my brother and step-brother with kids on the way i can defo say im broody lol
im the only one out of my group of mates who hasnt got a kid. infact i would say 80% of my year at school has got the money eaters.
kelbelle
27-03-09, 05:03 PM
Me too Burgo! No disrespect to people who have kids young but I love that I was the brainy geek getting bullied by the popular tarts. Now when im walking through town to uni I see them all waddling along pushing their kids. Makes me feel warm inside :)
Nova_Tek
27-03-09, 05:05 PM
Im married and 25 but kids are not on the list just yet. A few more years for sure. Need to get stuff sorted, get finances in order, finish the Nova and want to live a little before kids happen. Kids need a lot of care and attention and if you're life isn't in order then it's not the perfect time to raise children.
My views.
marc novataken
27-03-09, 05:07 PM
im 19 and have a 13 month old daughter and another one on the way in a couple of months! best thing that ever happened to me, put everything into perspective and got me to sort myself out
^^^ no offence dude but thats kinda the point. it shouldnt be having kids that makes you grow up and get yourself sorted. imo you should have already done this before even thinking about kids
i would have to agree with burgo well said mate.
dave.gsi
27-03-09, 05:15 PM
wow, i can see this being a good thread!
married at 25? two kids at 19? OMFG lol
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 05:16 PM
No kids here. Well not that i know of lol I'm 26, and have thought "hmmm, maybe before i'm 30" but then i want to get to the 'ring and do the weston beach race before i'm 30 aswell. The misses (shes 22) has wanted kids since forever. She is about to become an aunty...twice in the space of 4 weeks!!! Also alot of my mates are now parents. I feel like the odd one out.
^^^ no offence dude but thats kinda the point. it shouldnt be having kids that makes you grow up and get yourself sorted. imo you should have already done this before even thinking about kids
+1
Im 27 and have kids 9 year old girl and 4 year old lad, defo enough for me!
marc novataken
27-03-09, 05:17 PM
^^^ no offence dude but thats kinda the point. it shouldnt be having kids that makes you grow up and get yourself sorted. imo you should have already done this before even thinking about kids +rep
absolutely right tbh, i should have sorted myself out but just didnt :confused: cant explain it really. left school with nothing, didnt work and lived with my parents. now i am doing an apprenticeship, work part time as well and live in a 2 bed house with my fiancee. baby wasnt planned but we decided it was what we wanted. i do agree with what people are saying about some people though. a neighbour of mine recently had a disabled child and was excited about the extra benefits he would get! sick :mad:
^^^ benefit theifs wind me up. one of my "mates" has never worked a day in his life yet he gets £200 a week from the job centre
being the odd one out is much better pete altho the weekends arent what they used to be with them all looking after there kids. (none of them are still with the mothers)
dave.gsi
27-03-09, 05:19 PM
26 with a 22 year old girlfriend?.........nice work lol
Thats nothing Dave. Im 34 today and carla is 21 with large breasts lol.
my gf where i was 16 was 27 lol older women ftw.
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 05:23 PM
26 with a 22 year old girlfriend?.........nice work lol
We have been together "a while" i shall say no more....:eek: ;)
Nova_Tek
27-03-09, 05:24 PM
wow, i can see this being a good thread!
married at 25?
Nothing wrong with that mate, all depends on the mentality and the maturity of the people getting married. I was with my girlfriend for 5 years before I got married in summer.
There are certain advantages of getting married a bit younger then usual. I have a few mates that are a fair bit older than me, it doesnt mean that it will last just coz you're older.
My wife is 22 ;)
^^^ benefit theifs wind me up. one of my "mates" has never worked a day in his life yet he gets £200 a week from the job centre
being the odd one out is much better pete altho the weekends arent what they used to be with them all looking after there kids. (none of them are still with the mothers)
Burgo, do you think you could have a word with your "mate" and ask him how the f**k he gets £200 of them! I only get £95!!!!!
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 05:28 PM
Heres a word...J.O.B...
EDIT: you may have been laid off, which i wouldnt have known about. Apologies....If not, get off your lazy ****!!! ;) lol :p
cos he gets disability benefit cos hes paranoid to funk as hes smoked a forest worth of skunk which has scrambled his brain. skunk all paid for by the dole.
he has also got one kid and another on the way. plus he gets his rent and coucil tax paid for him
28 now, had Little Amber nearly 10 weeks ago. Never tought I'd want/be ready for her.... but feck me if it isnt the coolest thing to happen to me ever. I feel soooooo smug, OK I'm not the first to sire a child but it certainly feels like it to me lol
+ rep added mate class...
yes 1 of the f*kers and im 17... its called a nova!! gets more attention then anything and takes alot to get clean, costs alot to feed and then theres the cost of mods lol and takes alot of work all together
stevie-p
27-03-09, 06:33 PM
i dont think young pregnancies are wrong unless you are uncappable of looking after it and affording it
ye maybe peoplke see the woman as a skett etc but many people i no are young and have them with a dad jobs etc i see nothing wrong when you are on the doll with no need i dissagree its just a way out to make an easy life
lol
Heres a word...J.O.B...
EDIT: you may have been laid off, which i wouldnt have known about. Apologies....If not, get off your lazy ****!!! ;) lol :p
I give up my £30k a year job to look after my wife as she needs a double lung transplant and will quite possibly die soon if she doesn't get it. I had a job since leaving school and was never on the dole. I've paid my taxes all my working life and now I get less money to live on than a f***ing smack head:roll:
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 06:37 PM
Fair play to you. I do agree though, a mate of mine was also going to give up work to be a full time carer for his wife, but would get sod all so didnt.
tom reid
27-03-09, 06:43 PM
I was married at 18, first kid at 19 and second child at 21, we were both young, we knew we loved each other and that we wanted children.
We never really struggled financially and looking back now I would do the same again, why?, I'm now 44 and both the kids have grown up and moved out, so now it's our time.
My brother is 43 and has just had his last, (he says), by the time this child is 17, my brother will be 60! and looking to put his feet up, not listening to some spotty youth mouthing off because his room isn't tidylol
I feel that I can just about understand youngsters nowadays, it wasn't that long ago I was one myself, but at 60 I don't think my brother will.
stevie-p
27-03-09, 06:49 PM
i have one on the way 3 and a half monthes in im 18 (19 at the time of birth)
have just been made redundant but i WILL get another job
financially ?? who knows but on paper it looks good
was not planned but after a 3 year solid relashionship i am happy and can not wait
my missus is no slag we both work (worked) hard and will continue to do so
she has an NVQ in bar work and waitrising and will soon be doing a managers course i am still in an apprentiship for the time being both have GCSE'S and qualifications
and im mature and happy
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 06:51 PM
And (dont take offence at this) another statistic. Good luck to you both though.
Jeff16v
27-03-09, 06:53 PM
i'm 36 with two kids, a 5 year old Nicholas and a two week old Keira. Its all good funlol
http://i233.photobucket.com/albums/ee77/gsijeff/DSCN0110.jpg
I have a few kids, Kids are by far the best play things ever!!
havent got any and tbh i never want them
tom reid
27-03-09, 06:54 PM
And (dont take offence at this) another statistic. Good luck to you both though.
And you're point is....
I have a 14month old daughter and another baby on the way.Im 23.
Its the nicest time of my life at the minute and im very happy.
dj_wudgey
27-03-09, 07:13 PM
and what age did you have them?
i'm 26 and i'm not even thinking about having one of the little poo machines yet! three of my mates have recently became mums/dads and they're all younger than me, i couldn't think of anything worse lol
im same as you mate having one would DESTROY my life lol im allways out having a good time i havent the time for anything like that me!! i dont want none either though lol
draper you hold my mind set never wanted them never will!!
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:27 PM
And you're point is....
In my post. You quoted it so you must have read it.
tom reid
27-03-09, 07:33 PM
In my post. You quoted it so you must have read it.
Re read you're posts, don't get the 'another stastic' bit
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:36 PM
He (stevie-p) is going to be a dad @ 18. Another teenage pregnacy/father, therefore making him another statistic.
He (stevie-p) is going to be a dad @ 18. Another teenage pregnacy/father, therefore making him another statistic.
People are statistics whatever way you look at Things:wtf:.Who cares if hes 18.If hes happy thats all that matters.
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:41 PM
Yes, but a negative statistic IMO. He is happy and i wish him/them luck.
let_nova
27-03-09, 07:42 PM
im 22 and have a 1 year old boy,, wouldnt change it for the world!
tom reid
27-03-09, 07:43 PM
People are statistics whatever way you look at Things:wtf:.Who cares if hes 18.If hes happy thats all that matters.
^What he said, took the words out of my mouthlol
Yes, but a negative statistic IMO. He is happy and i wish him/them luck.
Why a negative statistic??
twistysnovagte
27-03-09, 07:43 PM
im 28 have a little lad whos 6 now,,and thats the best thing thats happened in my life, enough said:)
tom reid
27-03-09, 07:44 PM
Why a negative statistic??
Too slowlol
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:46 PM
Why a negative statistic??
Yet another teenage set of parents. Whats good about that? That is my opinion. Why be in a rush to have kids when in essence you are still a kid???? Thats what i am getting at.
tom reid
27-03-09, 07:48 PM
I think I know where pete58 is coming from, chavy young parents, living off the dole, etc.
But he should realise that not all young peolple make 'mistakes', there are plenty of teenagers who are more mature than their peers, hard working and who choose to start a family, if we all waited until we could financially afford kids, most of us would'nt be herelol
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:51 PM
I'm not saying all young parents are chavy scalywags, some are, but it does annoy me that they "think thier ready". Yes if we all waited until we were ready it might not happen, but be sure that you are ready, job, roof over your head etc. At the end of the day they are the future generations and they will do what they see/think is "right".
i'm 33 with 2 girls, ones aged 9 and the other is 5, my god isnt my life going to be fun in about 7 years time with 3 females running a mockery lol lol
Yet another teenage set of parents. Whats good about that? That is my opinion. Why be in a rush to have kids when in essence you are still a kid???? Thats what i am getting at.
So what if they teenage.18 is the age when you turn an ADULT dont forget.
Whats good about that you ask? If they are happy and its what they want,then that is Good,thats what.
Not everybody plans to have children early,sometimes it just happens (Andy now awaits comments of "Well they should be more careful then")
But it doesnt always work like that.
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 07:56 PM
We obviously have different views. And yes they should have been more careful..;) :p lol
We obviously have different views. And yes they should have been more careful..;) :p lol
lol
Ive just read your other posts though and i do agree with that mate yeah.I can see what you were trying to say now.
There is a lot that do it as a career these days.Its sad but very true.
tom reid
27-03-09, 08:01 PM
I actually agree with you on some of your points Pete, however, most teenagers think they are mature enough to do almost anything, the trouble is that when they realise that being in love and with children to support, is hard work, they run away, leaving the state to pick up the pieces.
But not all teenagers are like that, in fact in some cases, even folk in their 20's are'nt mature enough to raise a family, and if like you they choose to leave it till later, then fine.
Draper has said he won't have kids, fook me, knowing Draper as I do, he should have have been steralised at birth, to stop him having 'an accident'lol
tom reid
27-03-09, 08:02 PM
i'm 33 with 2 girls, ones aged 9 and the other is 5, my god isnt my life going to be fun in about 7 years time with 3 females running a mockery lol lol
Much respect to you, not that it'll help in the futurelol
Draper has said he won't have kids, fook me, knowing Draper as I do, he should have have been steralised at birth, to stop him having 'an accident'lol
snip snip :thumb:
tom reid
27-03-09, 08:04 PM
You stalkin me?, that's creepy!
stevie-p
27-03-09, 08:30 PM
i disagree like i said i never planned it and as a few of you no i am mature for those who dont
can only think ... im young cant hack it will be going on the dole
no...i am a ''MAN''
i can do it both work hard have sorted a place to live
some of you ''the older generation''
are stuck in old ways we cant do this and that because we are not mature enough
out there are some of us out there that are
and pete i will be 19 mate
dont take offence
you seem a nice geezer
novaboy.p.
27-03-09, 08:36 PM
i have a lil boy he is 15 months old now im only 19 cn get abit stressy sumtimes but it gets alot easyer as they get older thn whn there like fresh rent a house with the miss's dnt get a lot of spare money like but enuf to get by n buy the odd parts now n agen lol if you gt a miss's u get along with n cn be layed bk enuf to deal with it you be alright lol
i have a lil boy he is 15 months old now im only 19 cn get abit stressy sumtimes but it gets alot easyer as they get older thn whn there like fresh rent a house with the miss's dnt get a lot of spare money like but enuf to get by n buy the odd parts now n agen lol if you gt a miss's u get along with n cn be layed bk enuf to deal with it you be alright lol
bin the text type (tis in the rules)
i have a lil boy he is 15 months old now im only 19 cn get abit stressy sumtimes but it gets alot easyer as they get older thn whn there like fresh rent a house with the miss's dnt get a lot of spare money like but enuf to get by n buy the odd parts now n agen lol if you gt a miss's u get along with n cn be layed bk enuf to deal with it you be alright lol
Mate,i speak on behalf of the whole site when i ask if you could edit that into english please
Pistol Pete
27-03-09, 08:40 PM
Steve, i was generalising. But fair play to you for having your head screwed on.
stevie-p
27-03-09, 08:42 PM
Steve, i was generalising. But fair play to you for having your head screwed on.
i agree its coming from me and we all think we are better at things than we are but i have faith and hope and yes got my head screwed on
cheers bud:thumb:
valvercorsa
27-03-09, 08:43 PM
hi my partner has got twin girls which i treat like my own and my partner has got 4 weeks left until my first child is born :) carnt wait.
we were hoping for a boy but we have got another girl, so im going to have fun gettin to the bathroom when they are teenagers :(
/\ just get a second bathroom. I am working towards one for my 3
valvercorsa
27-03-09, 09:11 PM
well we have got an outside toilet:D
may have to take all my nova spares out to use it tho lol
dave.gsi
27-03-09, 09:36 PM
all i'm going to say is when i was 18/19, i thought i was a 'man' (as someone put it) all grown up and mature,... i wasn't!
18 - 25 are the best years of your life, you have your own money, freedom to go out, experiment with drugs and alcohol and a never ending supply of fit women to have sex with, why anyone would want to give that up for a baby at such a young age is beyond me! i think one day you'll regret it......not having the kids, just having them at such a young age.
(if you don't agree then -rep me, pleeeease)
our first one came along when i was 30.. but we had been thru 4 miscarriages beforehand. kids are precious, at any age (except for that kid in the paper the other month)
valvercorsa
27-03-09, 10:01 PM
i never wanted them at a young age but now 26 and just having my first. im wishing i hadthem younger, as im going to be over 40 when they leave school and men dont live that long in our family lol
kelbelle
27-03-09, 10:01 PM
18 - 25 are the best years of your life, you have your own money, freedom to go out, experiment with drugs and alcohol and a never ending supply of fit women to have sex with, why anyone would want to give that up for a baby at such a young age is beyond me! i think one day you'll regret it......not having the kids, just having them at such a young age.
Actually I dont agree with you but im not going to neg rep you :thumb:
Thats not what that age bracket is about for me at all! Yes its a time to enjoy myself and hang with my mates but experimenting with drugs? No thanks!!! I detest drugs and anyone that uses or deals them! Anyone that deals drugs should die a painful death!
I dont want a baby at my age like i said but if it happens it happens imo.
I think having a child young can be beneficial for women especially. Have your kids at 18, your 24 by the time their in school and then can start a career. If you start a career first you can be less likely to get jobs because employees are scared to employ you in case you get preggers. Or if you do then you drop out of work for a year or two, come back and have to start at the bottom again!
dougie_boi
27-03-09, 10:03 PM
im 25 and my first boy was born when i was 18 and my second when i was 24. i was still a kid when my oldest was born so it was quite hard as you only had so much time to grow up your self before the young one arrived.
Actually I dont agree with you but im not going to neg rep you :thumb:
Thats not what that age bracket is about for me at all! Yes its a time to enjoy myself and hang with my mates but experimenting with drugs? No thanks!!! I detest drugs and anyone that uses or deals them! Anyone that deals drugs should die a painful death!
well thank you, i wish you the best also.
you are wishing death om my country :cry:
i'm turning 23 in may, and i can honestly say that i would be an unfit parent at this age. respect for those who can. i never want them btw
dave.gsi
27-03-09, 10:50 PM
lol the dutch just luuuurve to schmoke :D
i'm 30 and my little lad is nearly 8 weeks old....... best thing i ever did.
Off to weld some isofix brackets into the nova!lol ( thats for the baby seat.... i only found this out a few weeks back!)
Blimey there are some other "more mature" members on here - thought I was the last of the dinosaurs!
Well weighing at very nearly 50 and having 3 kids (27,25 &22) and been around the block a bit, bought the T shirt and kept it long enough for it to have come back into fashion ...twice! lol I reckon that there is "no right time" to have kids. For most decent hard working peeps having kids young really doesn't matter - its a massive challenge at anytime. It can be the making of some and screw things up for others who are never really going to cope or be a good parent come whatever time they have kids.
With the benefit of hindsight I can honestly say I am glad I had my kids young(ish) -21 for my first. Ok it was tough at first career wise but it gave me the kick up the **** I needed to grow up. Once you have the responsibilty you quickly realise that your life wasn't quite so meaningful and great as you thought. There's no way of knowing what it is like until you try it. Having kids young is good cos its bloody hard work and if you are young you can cope better. Plus if you are young you have a more equal relationship with them as they grow.
Finally I know childless couples/peeps of my age and as they grow older you can defo see the regrets building. They gained earlier with wealth etc but now they miss out on the beneifts of family - its a major part of the meaning of life. They sort of have everything but nothing - what exactly have they achieved? For all those who say "never" or "not now" you dont really know what you are talking about cos you only know half the story;)
tom reid
28-03-09, 08:24 AM
well said:thumb:
I thought I was old...lol
Nova_Tek
28-03-09, 10:02 AM
Blimey there are some other "more mature" members on here - thought I was the last of the dinosaurs!
Well weighing at very nearly 50 and having 3 kids (27,25 &22) and been around the block a bit, bought the T shirt and kept it long enough for it to have come back into fashion ...twice! lol I reckon that there is "no right time" to have kids. For most decent hard working peeps having kids young really doesn't matter - its a massive challenge at anytime. It can be the making of some and screw things up for others who are never really going to cope or be a good parent come whatever time they have kids.
With the benefit of hindsight I can honestly say I am glad I had my kids young(ish) -21 for my first. Ok it was tough at first career wise but it gave me the kick up the **** I needed to grow up. Once you have the responsibilty you quickly realise that your life wasn't quite so meaningful and great as you thought. There's no way of knowing what it is like until you try it. Having kids young is good cos its bloody hard work and if you are young you can cope better. Plus if you are young you have a more equal relationship with them as they grow.
Finally I know childless couples/peeps of my age and as they grow older you can defo see the regrets building. They gained earlier with wealth etc but now they miss out on the beneifts of family - its a major part of the meaning of life. They sort of have everything but nothing - what exactly have they achieved? For all those who say "never" or "not now" you dont really know what you are talking about cos you only know half the story;)
Some valid points CP and I also agree with what Pete 58 is also saying.
There seems to be a few 'teenage' parents on PNG but not the typical teenaged parents we are thinking about. I have to give you guys some respek yo! as it can be difficult as some people will no doubt try stereotyping becasue you have had kids young.
Like I said before it all depends on maturity. My wifes cousin got married at 19 after she felt this guy was the 'one' couldn't see herself with any one else ya di yada blah blah etc I felt she was too immature and not in the correct mind set to get married as she still obviously wanted to live her youth, go out, party, mingle etc (not a bad person a lovely girl infact but not yet over her teenage ways). She got married and had a kid but has broken up 4 times, had a formal divorce, not earning much cash. Now she is back with her ex, trying to work it out. Her son who is a cute kid has behavioral problems and I put this down to parenting purely becuase she, I feel, is still young and a kid herself even though now she is 22.
So there are advantages and disadvantages of having kids young, if your a mature about the situation then it can be a wonderful thing.
:thumb:
dj_wudgey
28-03-09, 11:13 AM
well thank you, i wish you the best also.
you are wishing death om my country :cry:
i'm turning 23 in may, and i can honestly say that i would be an unfit parent at this age. respect for those who can. i never want them btw
im like you matey!! i can say the same i wouldent be a good parant im f*cking pissed all the time! im never in! i havent the pateince or time for them me never wanted any lol
also respect for people that can do it but no ive never fancied being a family man!!
i have my babies a 1300 sr nova and a gte!!
Joe Richardson
28-03-09, 11:26 AM
im like you matey!! i can say the same i wouldent be a good parant im f*cking pissed all the time! im never in! i havent the pateince or time for them me never wanted any lol
also respect for people that can do it but no ive never fancied being a family man!!
i have my babies a 1300 sr nova and a gte!!
PMSLlol
dj_wudgey
28-03-09, 11:28 AM
PMSLlol
well its the truth lol
Its no way im having kids, Im intelligent id rather have my money and life for myself :D
I might have some but i always have safe sex....
false name and phone number!
dave.gsi
28-03-09, 12:13 PM
^^ lol
i've done that, gave a girl a wrong number, she was like 'i'll just ring it now to check i put it in right'................................BYE lol
My other half has a 3 Y/O daughter and a now a 7 Y/O son. Its became apparent Im there adopt a father as there real dad doesnt really bother them anymore
Austin.J
28-03-09, 12:15 PM
I might have some but i always have safe sex....
false name and phone number!
Still abit risky, ALWAYS do them whilst out, roundabouts are more fun than you think, never take them home. lol
dj_wudgey
28-03-09, 12:42 PM
pmsl at bigs and ben
bigs im too selfish aswell i think about me my life and pocket never want them lol
and bed thats class lol my kinda safe sex lol
I might have some but i always have safe sex....
false name and phone number!
Yes and no, if she is really good in bed you would want more. so a fake name and your number. if something happens a new number is only a sim card away ;)
Austin.J
28-03-09, 01:38 PM
Yes and no, if she is really good in bed you would want more. so a fake name and your number. if something happens a new number is only a sim card away ;)
I plan on investing in a "pub phone" a phone with a differant number that i only use when going out, no need for a new number then. lol
I plan on investing in a "pub phone" a phone with a differant number that i only use when going out, no need for a new number then. lol
You player you lol :thumb:
lol i have at least 4 different phones, different ones for different scenarios!
nathan.
28-03-09, 02:11 PM
I'm 24 & married, were expecting our 1st. Can't wait :)
I plan on investing in a "pub phone" a phone with a differant number that i only use when going out, no need for a new number then. lol
legendary idea
27 with a 2 year old lad :)
dj_wudgey
28-03-09, 07:58 PM
I plan on investing in a "pub phone" a phone with a differant number that i only use when going out, no need for a new number then. lol
ha ha class matey!!
I've got 7 kids
Brook (9)
Buffy (10)
Fishes 1, 2, 3, 4 (about 3 months old)
and biscuit (3 months)
It's literally like having kids!
i'm 32 with two girls
one six and the other is coming up for two
26, have an 8yr old step daughter and a bun in the oven due on my Birthday thats gonna be a BOY!!
I'm 34 - married with a 2.5yrs old boy (connor) and with another one on the way :cool: kids are what life is all about to me.
kelbelle
29-03-09, 08:13 PM
well thank you, i wish you the best also.
you are wishing death om my country :cry:
i'm turning 23 in may, and i can honestly say that i would be an unfit parent at this age. respect for those who can. i never want them btw
Sorry but I have watched my step brothers life be destroyed by drugs! I have no sympathy for anyone that deals in drugs and then gets hurt!
Mmmmmmmm..... Drugs :p
I'm 22 and don't have any kids. None. I think it's time to have a few hassle free years of living first, as my life (until just recently) has been a very hectic one lol
Sorry but I have watched my step brothers life be destroyed by drugs! I have no sympathy for anyone that deals in drugs and then gets hurt!
but what about the people who do drugs and never get hurt/burnt/****ed up ?
do you hate people who drink alcohol because of the small percentage of alcoholics ??
/off topic
i love playing with all my mates little uns, dont get me wrong im not anti-child (lol) i just know there not for me, ever
dj_wudgey
30-03-09, 09:53 AM
but what about the people who do drugs and never get hurt/burnt/****ed up ?
do you hate people who drink alcohol because of the small percentage of alcoholics ??
/off topic
i love playing with all my mates little uns, dont get me wrong im not anti-child (lol) i just know there not for me, ever
im not really one for kids me lol but ive never wanted them! i know they are bad for me!! they would f*ck up my p*ssed time lol
kelbelle
30-03-09, 11:50 AM
Luckily for me Ive never had an alcoholic in my family so its not something i have to deal with. But no i dont drink, I dont like what is does to people.
NO-ONE can change my opinion of drug dealers! They are all scum! And if anyone on here is a drug dealer then I think your scum! Nuff said
Pistol Pete
30-03-09, 11:54 AM
Not looking to venture off topic, but why do you feel its the dealers fault? Did they pin your step brother down and force them on him. NO. If people didnt have a need for drug abuse in the first place there would be no need for dealers. If we didnt have a need for petrol, there wouldnt be petol stations....see where i'm going? Supply and demand.
Luckily for me Ive never had an alcoholic in my family so its not something i have to deal with. But no i dont drink, I dont like what is does to people.
NO-ONE can change my opinion of drug dealers! They are all scum! And if anyone on here is a drug dealer then I think your scum! Nuff said
I thought you went to university? lol
*you are/you're
Not looking to venture off topic, but why do you feel its the dealers fault? Did they pin your step brother down and force them on him. NO. If people didnt have a need for drug abuse in the first place there would be no need for dealers. If we didnt have a need for petrol, there wouldnt be petol stations....see where i'm going? Supply and demand.
Futurama has the asnwer for dealers, I saw an episode which had a crack vending machine. Genius. lol
I agree with Petay, I don't have a major problem with dealers as I have no association with them personally. If people weren't reliant on the evil they peddle then as he says there would be no need for them.
Ok sorry but this has gotten out of hand. The thread title is WHO HAS KIDS? not WHAT ARE YOUR OPINION ON DRUGS? If you want to start a thread on drugs, then do so, dont spam this thread.
Ok sorry but this has gotten out of hand. The thread title is WHO HAS KIDS? not WHAT ARE YOUR OPINION ON DRUGS? If you want to start a thread on drugs, then do so, dont spam this thread.
Getting wrong. :(
I has no kids.
In the future, kids I shall have.
The Simps
30-03-09, 01:09 PM
I think having a child young can be beneficial for women especially. Have your kids at 18, your 24 by the time their in school and then can start a career. If you start a career first you can be less likely to get jobs because employees are scared to employ you in case you get preggers. Or if you do then you drop out of work for a year or two, come back and have to start at the bottom again!
I know what you mean. A close friend is studying to be a GP and really wants kids but knows to have a couple of years out would put her too far behind the game.
The Simps
30-03-09, 01:10 PM
I'm 27 and no kids but definately would like plenty.
I'm in a stable career earning good money, have a roof over my head and good health. just got to find the perfect host now...
rubachuk
30-03-09, 01:19 PM
Im 29 and have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. I'd have probably waited a few years in an ideal world but the wife is nearly 12 year older than me :eek: so after we got married we started trying for the first (9 months and 1 day after the wedding the first was born!). We wanted two and didn't want her getting too old to make it risky.
To be honest I wouldn't have minded waiting a few years, but my missus is REALLY good to me. She knows I sort of sacrificed a bit with having kids a bit early so she lets me get away with a fair bit (pub, Nova, etc).
I'm a really lucky guy
kelbelle
30-03-09, 01:28 PM
Dod - that was the point i was making with "nuff said" so on with the kiddy talk. :)
I'm 27 and no kids but definately would like plenty.
I'm in a stable career earning good money, have a roof over my head and good health. just got to find the perfect host now...
Erm... Hello :D
The Simps
30-03-09, 07:07 PM
but your a northerner. give me some credit! lol x
dave.gsi
30-03-09, 09:50 PM
hmm, i'm tempted to start a 'drugs' thread, would be very interesting if everyone told the truth lol
very unlikely though!
The Simps
30-03-09, 09:53 PM
hmm, i'm tempted to start a 'drugs' thread, would be very interesting if everyone told the truth lol
very unlikely though!
I'm sure there was one a while back.
kelbelle
30-03-09, 09:56 PM
I would tell the truth. I already have!
Pistol Pete
30-03-09, 10:11 PM
hmm, i'm tempted to start a 'drugs' thread, would be very interesting if everyone told the truth lol
very unlikely though!
lol go for it. I'm not ashamed about having dabbled. Trying out various drungs was fun aswell!!!
dave.gsi
30-03-09, 10:13 PM
**** it......its happening :thumb:
The Simps
30-03-09, 10:14 PM
I only found out the other day that apparantly its perfectly safe to take 2 paracetamol, 2 aspirin and 2 ibuprofen!
dave.gsi
30-03-09, 10:19 PM
http://www.pngclub.com/forum/showthread.php?t=117657
marc novataken
31-03-09, 12:50 AM
a few people been down on teen parents here, ill admit it wasnt ideal or planned but IMO if youre man enough to make a life, youre man enough to take care of one. regardless of age
my x had kids young (not mine) and she was an awsome mother. i guess its up2 u when your ready
a few people been down on teen parents here, ill admit it wasnt ideal or planned but IMO if youre man enough to make a life, youre man enough to take care of one. regardless of age
Amen Jeremy Kyle!!
marc novataken
31-03-09, 01:21 AM
lol
Its a good comment tho, if only the minority of teenage parents lived by that then they would stop giving a bad 'name' to the many brilliant teenage parents..
Ps I'm 22 with 0 kids and no plans to have any until 29ish, just hope the missus agrees!!lol
large_steve182
31-03-09, 01:28 AM
http://murderburger.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/12-year-old-dad.png?w=380&h=431
kelbelle
31-03-09, 10:31 AM
oh apparently he's not the dad after all I heard!
yeah that was all over the papers..bet he made a fair bit off the story tho!!
dj_wudgey
31-03-09, 03:19 PM
http://murderburger.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/12-year-old-dad.png?w=380&h=431
she reminds me off shrek!!
Tidy Max
01-04-09, 08:56 AM
^^^ no offence dude but thats kinda the point. it shouldnt be having kids that makes you grow up and get yourself sorted. imo you should have already done this before even thinking about kids
but its not always a conscience decision to have them though is it! and when you do find out your having a kiddy without prior planning, getting your life on track couldn't be a better result really..
..ahh didnt plan for this one, f it, ill still drop that 2lt in the nova lol
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