As Andy said, cold turkey is the only way imo, i stopped smoking going on four years ago now, was on over 20 a day and had smoked for sixteen years, if you need to use all these patches and gum and all that bollox, then imo you dont actually want to quit at all, youre just wanting to show willing but dont want to miss out on the nicotine or the habit of having something hand to mouth like the electric cigs.
If you truly want to stop, then you will do it, and the only way to stop, is to stop, simple as, no toys, no gadgets or patches, just stop!
Its hard and i know it is, but its the only way i reckon!