How sad
I assume she can still read/write? Why not write her a letter if you can't face seeing her.
Might be worth having a look in, you may be surprised at a warm welcome and id bet Rach would appreciate seeing you dude, but thats up to you in all fairness, the reminder has had me in tears already so god knows how you must be feeling right now!
And with regard to Aragorn, can we not mention that one any more please, too long winded and not mentioned on here through respect, thread closure will be applied if needed.
This thread has really ****ed my head up again :-(
I can relate to how you feel buddy,
at 16 i lived with my mother as i dont have a father,my mother was out celebrating with friends her birthday and came in drunk,she came into my room to say night and then left,
all i heard was a tumble as she fell down the stairs banging her head and putting her into a coma,
after 8 months after constantly visiting her and talking to her in her bed even though she was in a deep coma its something you need to do, after 9 month she came from a coma to be brain injured and wheelchair bound, i took her out on occasions pushing her round in her wheelchair, i was 16 at the time so i was able to take the house over while she was ill. I hated seeing her like this and really did make me feel sad.
a year passed with few complications blood clots kept appearing and she sadly departed from me, she was my world i was a real mummys boy and my best friend,all she ever did was work to give me and my sisters everything we ever wanted and just as we were getting old enough to give back our upbringing she was gone parentless in the big world at 18
Funnily enough, i thought about this yestaday @ lunch!
I had thought about it recently too, I think a lot of us have tbh. I don't think I ever commented on the original thread, but I did follow it, and following something like that through the eyes of someone most affected is certainly powerful.
really makes you think don't it, and maybe a letter won't be such a bad idea if you can't face to see her. as its been said before its totally your decision.
one of my close friends has been jailed for "death by dangerous driving" although if she had a seat belt on things would of been alot different as he has is on and still lived.
Here's the old thread.
http://www.pngclub.com/forum/showthr...fter-car-crash